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Okay so that self help book may not be the best one to read. Yes that really is a book, I couldn't make that up, well i could but that is beside the point.

In general we have on going jokes about people and self help books. We feel almost guilty going to that section in the bookstore as if we have failed at life and know others can see we failed.

I ask you this...

How many doctors have you ever met that really had all the answers?
How many therapists have you met that weren't a little nutty themselves?
How many people do you know that can afford an attorney or accountant?

I personally use self help books, sometimes to be better at helping other people! There is nothing wrong with self education, why keep asking someone else for the answer, when you can provide it yourself!

This doesn't mean we don't ever need outside help and support, remember people need people. I just want you to remember the next time you try to help yourself, don't be ashamed, be proud!